64 Years Later, She Still Makes His Heart Race

Malligah and Mardaymootoo Parian got married on September 2, 1962. Their story is a simple one, built slowly and steadily through trials and tribulations.

He hasn't seen her for twenty years. Diabetes and then glaucoma have robbed him of his sight. But when asked to describe his wife, 89-year-old Mardaymootoo Parian does not hesitate. "She is an exceptional woman. She is generous, straightforward, and dislikes hypocrisy. She is calm and has good thoughts."

A pause. "She makes my heart race." Next to him, Malligah, 84, blushes. Even after 64 years, he still makes her blush. "The best thing in my life is meeting Malligah," he confides without hesitation.

It all began in the streets of Port-Louis after school. Malligah attended Bhujoharry College, while Mardaymootoo was enrolled at another school in the capital. Their paths crossed, at first by chance, then out of habit. "We often saw each other on the street, we talked and laughed," recalls Mardaymootoo. "It became a habit, a beautiful friendship."

From this bond gradually grew a deeper attachment. Mardaymootoo then made a life-changing decision. He went to Malligah's parents to ask for her hand, with determination and respect.

But initially, it was not easy. Malligah's parents were hesitant. She was still in school, and the future was uncertain. "They were not in agreement at first," she remembers. "But true love always prevails."

Time worked its magic, resistance faded, and hearts opened. "Everything happened smoothly," she says with a subtle smile.

Brick by Brick, a Home

On September 2, 1962, they united. No luxury or extravagance, just the essentials. "Family was there, it was beautiful. We were happy." Today, 64 years later, as they reminisce about this memory, their eyes light up as if it were the first day. "It feels like it was yesterday," whispers Malligah.

The marriage marked the beginning of a long journey together, filled with challenges but also happiness and companionship. Mardaymootoo secured a job as a nurse at the hospital. A demanding yet stable job. "I worked hard. Every penny counted."

With patience and perseverance, he saved diligently. His goal was clear: to provide a home for his family. He eventually bought land and built their house in Pointe-aux-Sables. "That was our dream," he says.

He also worked two years in Rodrigues, away from his family. "It wasn’t easy, but it was for the family." Their union brought forth two children: Yul, now 62, and Prettyllah, 55. They grew up in a household where respect, hard work, and love were paramount. "We always did our best for them," Malligah says. "We didn’t have much, but we had everything that mattered."

Today, the family has expanded with three grandchildren, who bring immense joy to the couple. The eldest son lives on the upper floor of the family home, while Malligah and Mardaymootoo occupy the ground floor, continuing to share their daily lives together. The house built brick by brick has become the heart of a whole family.

Twenty years ago, Mardaymootoo's vision began to deteriorate. Diabetes, followed by glaucoma. He lost his sight. It was the heaviest burden of their life together. But instead of weakening their bond, it strengthened it. "Despite everything, he knows every corner of the house," explains Malligah. "He is independent."

She looks after him daily, with constant attention. "I am here for him," she simply states. Despite the illness, Mardaymootoo keeps smiling. He continues to stay informed, listening to the radio and following the news. "I love listening to the news," he confesses. Malligah, on her part, enjoys watching series and preparing delicious meals. "I cook for him," she says simply. Two people who have learned, over time, to support each other quietly.

Over the years, the couple also had opportunities to travel. Together, they explored Europe, visiting five countries more than once: Germany, Switzerland, England, France, where some family members live. "Those were beautiful moments," Malligah recalls. They also speak of a trip to India, which remains etched in their memories. So many precious memories that enrich their shared story.

The Recipe

After more than six decades together, Malligah simply shares the keys to their longevity. "The recipe for success is understanding. You have to understand each other, make concessions, be attentive and patient. You must know how to listen."

Mardaymootoo nods in agreement. For him, mutual respect is essential. "We may not agree, we may have small conflicts. But we always end up reconciling."

As they approach their 64th wedding anniversary, they reflect peacefully on their journey.

"Love is a feeling that never dies," asserts Malligah. "Our love is solid as a rock." In their home in Pointe-aux-Sables, amidst memories and everyday gestures, they continue to move forward together, united, just like on the first day. "We are here for each other," summarizes Mardaymootoo.

And when asked what they take away from all these years, the answer is simple and evident. "We still love each other," replies Malligah.